I start training for my new job on June 4th. I’m both excited and nervous. I’ve worked with children before but they were much older. I suppose this would be a little more difficult being as though, small children can be difficult to work with. I have big plans for myself and one of them is definitely getting out of the “hood“. Sometimes you have to work your way up. However, the street that I live on is surprisingly peaceful. We have a lot of older folks on this street and some little children, but it’s quiet for the most part. Friends are always surprised when they see how quiet my street is, considering the neighborhood that I live in. I’ve lived around here for over 6 years. I’m not saying that I dislike where I live but I don’t enjoy it, either. Too much drama and crime goes on and I don’t want my child growing up around it. By the time he’s 5 or so I expect to be out of here. Hell, by the time he’s 3, I’d say I’ll probably make my move then. I can’t lie, I’m going to miss my neighborhood but there is always a need for changes. I’ve come a long way in the past couple of years, even though, I had to halt my dreams for a while to take care of family matters. I’m getting there. I’m more optimistic these days because of this new job. I’m closer to my dreams than I have ever imagined. On top of everything, they’ll be paying for me to go back to school, which is great because I’ve been planning on going back anyway. It’s not even an option to go back, it’s a requirement for the job. So, everything comes together, for my employer and for myself. Sometimes I wish I could have finished a few years ago, but better late than never right? There are just so many things that I am sick and tired of. For example, having to deal with other people all the time, putting them first and neglecting my own personal needs and dreams. I’m done with that. My sisters are grown now and it’s time that they learn the meaning of responsibility. I’ve read a lot of online blogs where young teens are looking for jobs. I applaud their efforts because a lot of adolescents are lazy. I learned a good work ethic when I was 15 years old. As soon as I was old enough to get working papers and work, my mother got my papers and helped me find a job. I guess she was preparing me for motherhood, life, and guardianship. At least that’s what I believe.
I’d just like to tell all of those ambitions teens out there, never give up and always realize that the people who are taking care of you, have needs and dreams too. It can’t always be about you and what you want. When you’re a guardian or parent, it drains you to have to take care of someone else and you should always be appreciative and show effort in getting things done for yourself. Parents and/or guardians will not be around forever, so you have to learn some kind of life skills to prepare yourself for survival in the case of any event. If my mother hadn’t taught me the meaning of responsibility so early, I probably would have had an even more difficult time taking care of my sisters. I’m not saying that it was a breeze but I rarely slacked off, either. If you don’t take this advice, just think about everything you’ve ever dreamed about and think about whether or not you can really achieve your dreams by always relying on other people to do this and that, for you.
“The purpose of life is a life of purpose.“ - Robert Byrne
Jaz Says:
Awesome, good luck for when you start the training. I hope you enjoy it! I always thought looking after younger kids might of been easier than the older ones but I felt that way after working at a childcare centre of all ages.
You’re so right in what you mean about the fact that some people take it for granted when their guardians are looking after them. I think no one will ever know what it’s like until they’ve experienced it and it becomes a bold reality… your advice is tremendous. I hope a lot of people read it and take it onboard if it’s relative to them. :)
I love reading your blogs because their always meaningful. :) I want to say good luck with getting out of that area, I want to move from my hometown too, it’s just the same all the time. You’re right with your comment on my site, change is always good. ;)
Jaz xxx
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Shine Says:
This entry really spoke to me, personally, because I am learning the true meaning of responsibility & being more productive at making things happen for me. I’ve come to realize that my father does a lot for me and is always there, even in my times of utter selfishness. You just confirmed something that I needed to hear from another person, so I thank you for that.
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ashhh Says:
hey sweetie..
a change is ALWAYS nice. you know? especially when there’s kids involved & stuff. I admire that about you, giving life a big chance & not giving up at all. it’s good for the benefit of your son ;) he’s so cuteee. good luck in all you do.
wells, take care hun. just wanted to see what’s new with you.
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ashhh Says:
hey it’s me again…
THANKS for the comment hun! Oh my goodness i’m already TERRIFIED for even having this baby :heart:. For the time being, i’m sorta at ease but when baby girl is almost around i’ll go into panic attack. Frills. I’ve got 3 months to go and it’s already making my knees shake ;) I love being pregnant though. The kicks is adorable. Sometimes sore. But lovely! Thanks for your advice sweetie.
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Tony Says:
im proud of you shannon stick to your guns and things will work out for you i know you will be the at whatever u do ;]
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Tony Says:
best* :)
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Brook Says:
You always have encouraging words to say and you always put them the right way! I have to applaud you for having a kid and taking care of your sisters and also on top of that working and now going back to school. You have a lot on your shoulders but you are so strong that you inspire me, real talk. And congrats on you going back to school. I guess I live in the “hood” but not that much lol. It’s just there are cops all around here and everything patrolling the area. Great blog!
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Dee Says:
Girl, you are living proof that everything has a way of falling into place. Sometimes things are delayed, but they’re never forgotten, and when you share your blessings or put others before yourself the whole universe conspires to reward you. Congrats on the job darling, and I hope everything continues to go your way.
They way you described your neighborhood hit mine on the nail. It’s quiet compared to OTHER neighborhoods, but doesn’t mean I’m satisfied with it.
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Brandy Says:
I wish you the best of luck with your new job. I don’t blame you for feeling a bit nervous. I’m sure it’ll work out in the long run.
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Britney Says:
Yeah it would be wise to move. I still live in a ghetto place. I turned out alright, but most of the people who grew up here as well had babies young and on drugs and stuff. Plus lots of shootings and stuff. Not cool to be around. I’m scared to even walk outside my door.
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♥Sweets Says:
Good luck with training…I’m sure you’ll do great.
I’m with ya on wanting to move out the ‘hood’…when I moved over here it was older people a few youngins and it was soooo lovely. But through the years the older people have passed, and the youngins are taking over! I heard the cars bumpin down the street with the loud music at ungodly hours and horns blowing…its like get out the damn car and go knock on the door! Lets not discuss how the crime has went up around here. It’s crazy!
Again best of luck to you. I know you are going to get the hang of things quickly and do great!
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Danielle Says:
I know I’m late but congrats on getting that new job. You are filled with so much wisdom and I look up to you Shannon. I know alot of people would love to move from their hood, yet many are comfortable in that type of comfort zone and are content with the havoc. But there are people like you and I who are ready to move on. You are blessed to have had your mother teach you responsibility; I honestly wished someone would have taught me that earlier in life. Instead of sugarcoating everything which I know that’s the reason why I’m so bitter. You really made me think with this post, which is something I always do when I come to your site. Take care Shannon!
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Mimi Says:
i NEEDED to read this blog, esp since i am looking for a job. yesterday, i was telling my mom how i kind of am scared to go apply for a job because i am just so used to having jobs handed to me. i fear rejection, which is quite sad. that’s why i am hesitating about applying for a job but i need to start relying on myself & stop expecting stuff to be handed to me. your job is paying for your education, too? that is truly a blessing shannon! good luck with everything!
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Ciel Says:
your new job sounds great! and i really like your look on things! you come of as a really strong person! it’s very important to be independant like that. good for you!
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Jenn~ Says:
That’s really great that everything’s coming along. ^_______^ I feel the same way.. I wish I would have finished school years back but late is definitely better than never.
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♥Qui* Says:
i really liked this entry. i’m very proud of you shannon & i hope that your job training goes well. i’m sure you will do fine with the younger kids, i mean, come on, your awesome. :) me & mom had a talk about this same thing earlier today. she was explaining to me how she doesnt think that i realize that she’s more than just my mother & also has things she wants to do with her life. i guess as children we dont see our parents as such, i know i really didnt until now…
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Tai Says:
Congrats on the job and on the training, that should be really good. I’m glad everything’s working out for you. :)
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Sache Says:
Thats great that you got that job. I know how you feel when you say that you’re ready to get out of the hood. I’m in the same predicament. I have a love-hate relationship with the place i’m living in now because theres so many things wrong with it, but theres so much i’ve learned just by living here.
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Noelle Says:
Congratulations! I know you’ll do an awesome job working with those kids. You seem like a genuinelt dedicated person and you seem motivated. How can you go wrong?
I’d like to get a job. I’m 15 and Summer’s coming up. It would be awesome to have a summer job.
It’s awesome that you took care of your sisters. It shows that you truely love them and care enough to take time out fo your life to care for them. That’s really great of you.
Good luck with everything. Good luck with school! I know you’ll do an awesome job!
~Noelle
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Cecilie Says:
Congrats with the job and good luck with the training. I’m sure you’ll do just fine:)
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Ellie Says:
You had some lovely and encouraging words there, I hope everything you decides works out for the best for you
And that is a beautiful quote at the end of your entry.
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*chanel. Says:
Awww, you’re so excited. Isn’t it invigorating when you get your foot in the door of a career that appeals to you? And I’m viewing your site under the dove skin and it looks so elegant and angelic. I love this one the best. I finally changed my layout myself (after 3 long months, lol). Take care babes.
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Alex Says:
That’s great things are coming together for you!
I totally agree about young people taking things for granted, especially in recent times. It’s a great feeling when people thank you for your efforts and it’s always nice to do the same.
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Tasha Says:
Hey.
You really got a nice website here. Very well organized.
Thanks for stopping by & the comments :) I appreciate it@
Good luck on your job as well!
xoxo
tasha
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Mia Says:
Great entry!! Thanks because I can use the advice you posted as well. Congratulations with the job and school hun! I’m proud of you. That’s right…never give up on those dreams girl. ;]
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John Says:
Good for you. You have to do good for yourself and your child. Thanks for the advice.
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Andie Says:
Hey! Thanks for the sweet comments! Your site is really beautiful! I love all the skins! Hope your first day went great! I’m looking for a job, too… maybe you could help me figure out what I want to do??? haha
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