Everything that I’m about to state is based on experiences or my own observations of relations surrounding me. Either read, absorb, learn and float away with new knowledge or remain in a state of denial, depression and continue about your way and remain unlearned. I call this piece A Ladies Movement Into Knowledge.

Ladies, you are all beautiful in your own way. I don’t care whether you’ve been told this before or have never heard it in your life but admit to yourself that there is something that awakens you every morning to continue your day and live on in the hope that one day your dreams of meeting and/or marrying your soulmate will come true. The first step has already been accomplished and if you’re still reading this, your curiosity is at it’s peak because you understand these very sentences in which you just read and you yearn for more knowledge and understanding. You, my dear, are that very lady who is yearning for love and affection at it’s best and even though you may be experiencing problems in your relations thus far, you still believe there is someone out there for you. This is true, because there is someone for everybody.

We all go through our bad relationships and this is a part of the learning process. Sure, some people meet their soulmates for the first time and live happily ever after. Unfortunately, not everyone is blessed with that experience. Don’t give up hope, though. The more you learn, the better you become at filtering out all of the bullshitters and mistakes in your life. No offense fellas, but some of you are proven mistakes to some, not all, women. There are women out there for you guys to but unfortunately, that is not the focus of this piece. The focus is the beautiful women that give your life meaning. If you’re steamed at that line, then maybe you should read this as well. That means you have high levels of estrogen running through your body that need to be tamed. Am I calling you soft? No. I’m simply remarking on the fact that men too, have a sensitive side that sometimes needs to come to surface.

When you put your all into a man and he does you “dirty”, that doesn’t mean you’re “weak” or any other negative phrases that people choose to attribute to your being. If you can’t acknowledge simple facts that are in front of your face and you make the choice to ignore them and continue on in your stubborn ways, then yes, you are weak and not very open-minded, hence the reason you’ll find yourself forever stuck in meaningless relationships.

The first thing I’d like to discuss is self esteem. Ladies, in order for you to be able to handle anything a man has to dish out, you need to be able to have confidence in yourself. When a man says, “You’re nothing without me”, a lady with low self-esteem will find this to be true, she’ll probably cry and even have thoughts of self blame. I’m nothing without you? Nigga, please. The very foundation for the nurturing of human life revolves around a woman. For every tear we cry for men, that’s another gold star for them to wear proudly on their chest because they feel good knowing that they have that kind of effect on anyone. The more tears you let loose, the weaker you become, do you know why? It’s quite simple. He has branded you with guilt. Deep inside you feel that you provoked anything that he may have done to you. That is not having a high self esteem, ladies. A man’s “retaliation” is most times, extreme and completely unnecessary, no matter what you have done. It’s usually simple shit that have no business being a focus of concern. When a man does something wrong to you, pick yourself up and move on, don’t cry. Do you think he’s crying for you? No. He’s sitting back probably hugged up with some other honey, laughing at you with his boys because his ego has kicked in and he feels as if he left a mark on you. Sort of like back in the old days when warriors marked their territories with victory flags. Fuck the flag, tear that mothafucka down, stick that shit in your pocket and leave that nigga deserted with that silly ego of his. Love yourself. If you don’t, when all else goes to pieces, who else is going to love you the way that you should be loved? No one, but GOD and yourself.

Everything that I have to say will be broken down into separate blog entries. If you’re intrigued and would like to know more, feel free to subscribe to my blog because best believe, I will be updating on this textual movement regularly. You may see me as a 23 year old, who doesn’t look a day over 16. But believe me, I have had my fair share of jerks, and even in the present I still come across some jerks. Relationships are like a game of chess. Each player awaits the next move, but if you want to just sit there and be the board, then feel free, that’s your problem. For every woman who wants some common, obvious knowledge that’s just not visible to the naked eye. Then you are in the right spot. You see, every move that is made in this game of chess becomes repetitive in the future. My vision is clearer and I’m able to spot the next move and bullshit that’s about to take place. They don’t know that, though. “They?”, you say. The men with the super egos, of course. Playing dumb is like an animal playing dead in the wilderness. The predator is always in for a big surprise.