This well known behavior is something a lot of women experience. Your man only takes you for granted if he posseses the assumption that you will always be around no matter what he does. Sure, you care for him a great deal, but you don’t have to dedicate your every waking moment into making sure that the relationship works out. It takes two parties to make any relationship work. If your man feels like you depend on him for compassion and security on a constant basis, he will always take you for granted. You should be able to depend on your man for those things, but you must reciprocate this behavior to reassure him that you are on his side just as much as he’s on yours. If you feel like you’re putting everything into a relationship and he’s not doing the same, then maybe you should reevaluate your priorities. You don’t have to always be around your man. A relationship revolves around trust, more than anything. If you feel as though you can’t trust your man, reevaluate your relationship. What is he doing that’s causing you to have these thoughts of mistrust? Of course, in most cases, there are some painfully obvious reasons and if that’s the case, then maybe you should take a break from this union and get yourself together. Even at times when this mistrust is at it’s highest, it helps to remember that you should find reason to bring this matter into light. Simply mistrusting someone does not grant your feelings the validity in which you are sure that you possess. It is annoying to some and it makes them think, “Damn she doesn’t trust me, why not do it?” Once this thought comes into play, it becomes a dangerous situation. I won’t tell you that all men are the same, and I won’t tell you that you should put all of your trust into one person, because trust should be earned. But one thing you must realize is, even problems such as this can build up and causes bigger problems in the long run. Believe me, I know that it isn’t hard to trust many people, but one thing is for certain, if you have things going on in your life, and you’re taking care of business like you’re supposed to, these moments of mistrust will not exist because you have much more important things on your mind. You won’t have the time to think about such things. That is not saying that some men are not guilty for some of their actions, but it is always good to remember that you need to analyze some of your thoughts before you react to certain things going on in any relationship.